What baffles me these days is the rate at which our sisters are
trying to live in a world they don’t belong to, all they want is fame,
not fame in the areas of morality, building good characters or emulating
the ways of the salaf and our pious predecessors but that of the
westerners and their allies. It still baffles me to look down 5 years back and see the damages done to our culture and traditions, how we’ve
thrown away our cultures and adopt that of the west all in the name of
civilisation. How our pious predecessors built and
instilled in us what we call Morality and still its nowhere to be found
in us these days.
If we look at the rate our Muslim sisters mostly Hausa’s abandoned our cultures and traditions for that of the west you’ll see that its so touching and mind boggling, if you look at these social networks such as twitter and facebook and see how our own Hausa muslim sisters are living their social life, u won’t only be surprised but shocked, anything dirty and nasty, you’ll see them topping the trend. They have no forecast about their future and how life will turn out to be for them after that. Displaying their semi-nude pictures on twitter all in the name of fashion and fame is no longer something new.
These social networking sites, despite their positive gains, have negative consequences too, once u post something nasty or dirty in these site, they’ll be there till eternity except if you delete them thereafter.
You will all be surprised at the number of retweets a nasty post has from our sisters. They’re not in any way looking for a pious man as a spouse who will complete half their Deen and prepare them for the hereafter rather a man with ‘swag’ as it is the word trending these days for he will make them popular and famous. This #Imustbelong attitude of our sisters is something that’s setting us backward in terms of moving forward. Today our sisters have turn into something else, always dressing just as the kafr’s, wearing skinny jeans and skimpy skirts all in the name of attracting attentions. The word ‘BossLady’ is all they expect from you when you’re complementing them.
Throughout my interactions with female friends, I hardly come across any girl that is willing to settle down as a teenager except from a girl who is just 18. She hails from Kano state, but resides in Abuja and also who’s name I can’t mention here even though I’m compelled to because I’m really Impressed by her sane thinking.
Many of our Muslim sisters don’t think of settling down immediately after college, they prefer to go through the university before settling down, but today this particular teenager I’m talking about has proven that there are teenagers who thinks positively about their future.
Our sisters should stand up an act quickly about settling down rather than being a Bosslady because nowadays even the most immoral man wants a decent woman, but if you want to live a life of fame, Bosslady and a Big girl, there are little boys patiently waiting to help you destroy your future.
Exchanging nude pictures over social networks and Bbm isn’t an option, if he really want to see you that way then he should meet your waliy and pay for your dowry. Its all fun and games until nobody wants to pay for your dowry.
One thing again is that our sisters rot at home because the race to marry a Big Boy is what is trending too, most ladies nowadays can’t function if there aren’t cash involved and the urge for material things has changed the story of LOVE. A man with a good heart is better than a rich man with that of a beast, most women say they want security in life so they won’t date a poor man. Ladies if he is not rich today doesn’t mean he’ll forever live a poor man, besides, the happiness and security of your life is your own responsibility. Those who choose not to endure may have to suffer for long, Exotic vacations, fancy dinners, little boxes containing sparkly things… Sure dating a successful man has its perks but also comes with its shares of headache and heartaches.
NB:
This is just my opinion and nobody's, If you dont like it, feel free to close the page. whatever you say about me won’t change the way I think, all I know is that I’ve voiced out what I’m feeling about our sisters and will still do when the need arise again.
If we look at the rate our Muslim sisters mostly Hausa’s abandoned our cultures and traditions for that of the west you’ll see that its so touching and mind boggling, if you look at these social networks such as twitter and facebook and see how our own Hausa muslim sisters are living their social life, u won’t only be surprised but shocked, anything dirty and nasty, you’ll see them topping the trend. They have no forecast about their future and how life will turn out to be for them after that. Displaying their semi-nude pictures on twitter all in the name of fashion and fame is no longer something new.
These social networking sites, despite their positive gains, have negative consequences too, once u post something nasty or dirty in these site, they’ll be there till eternity except if you delete them thereafter.
You will all be surprised at the number of retweets a nasty post has from our sisters. They’re not in any way looking for a pious man as a spouse who will complete half their Deen and prepare them for the hereafter rather a man with ‘swag’ as it is the word trending these days for he will make them popular and famous. This #Imustbelong attitude of our sisters is something that’s setting us backward in terms of moving forward. Today our sisters have turn into something else, always dressing just as the kafr’s, wearing skinny jeans and skimpy skirts all in the name of attracting attentions. The word ‘BossLady’ is all they expect from you when you’re complementing them.
Throughout my interactions with female friends, I hardly come across any girl that is willing to settle down as a teenager except from a girl who is just 18. She hails from Kano state, but resides in Abuja and also who’s name I can’t mention here even though I’m compelled to because I’m really Impressed by her sane thinking.
Many of our Muslim sisters don’t think of settling down immediately after college, they prefer to go through the university before settling down, but today this particular teenager I’m talking about has proven that there are teenagers who thinks positively about their future.
Our sisters should stand up an act quickly about settling down rather than being a Bosslady because nowadays even the most immoral man wants a decent woman, but if you want to live a life of fame, Bosslady and a Big girl, there are little boys patiently waiting to help you destroy your future.
Exchanging nude pictures over social networks and Bbm isn’t an option, if he really want to see you that way then he should meet your waliy and pay for your dowry. Its all fun and games until nobody wants to pay for your dowry.
One thing again is that our sisters rot at home because the race to marry a Big Boy is what is trending too, most ladies nowadays can’t function if there aren’t cash involved and the urge for material things has changed the story of LOVE. A man with a good heart is better than a rich man with that of a beast, most women say they want security in life so they won’t date a poor man. Ladies if he is not rich today doesn’t mean he’ll forever live a poor man, besides, the happiness and security of your life is your own responsibility. Those who choose not to endure may have to suffer for long, Exotic vacations, fancy dinners, little boxes containing sparkly things… Sure dating a successful man has its perks but also comes with its shares of headache and heartaches.
NB:
This is just my opinion and nobody's, If you dont like it, feel free to close the page. whatever you say about me won’t change the way I think, all I know is that I’ve voiced out what I’m feeling about our sisters and will still do when the need arise again.
